21-Breaking The Cycle: Trauma, Truth, And Creative Courage With Ruth Clare

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21-Breaking The Cycle: Trauma, Truth, And Creative Courage With Ruth Clare

Show notes
I talk with Ruth Clare about trauma, nervous system science, and the courage to tell difficult truths. From the fawn response to polyvagal tools and indie publishing, we share practical ways to turn fear into action and advocate for families often left out of the story.

• tracing Ruth’s path from science and acting to memoir
• defining the fawn response as survival pattern
• children as primary targets in domestic violence
• veteran training, fight bias and family harm
• government responsibility and support gaps
• ACEs, hypervigilance and long-term health
• body-up regulation, breath and grounding
• emotions as 90-second waves and practice
• using fear as fuel for creative action
• writing heavy material after doing the therapy
• content warnings, empathy and reader agency
• traditional vs indie publishing trade-offs
• owning craft, platform and advocacy

About Ruth Clare
Author, speaker, scientist, actor, and relentless truth-teller, Ruth Clare. Ruth is best known for her award-winning memoir Enemy, a powerful exploration of growing up with a Vietnam veteran father and the hidden legacy of intergenerational trauma. Her writing doesn’t flinch; she digs into the realities of domestic violence, the psychological fallout of war, and what happens when a child grows up in a home where fear is a constant companion.
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Ruth’s work sits at the intersection of lived experience and research. She blends science, storytelling, and emotional insight to help people understand how trauma shapes the nervous system — and how we can reclaim agency. Her follow-up books, including Beyond Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn and her upcoming guide Turn Fear into Courage, build on that mission, offering practical tools for anyone trying to break old patterns and move toward a more grounded life.
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